How to date better in messy Los Angeles - Los Angeles Times
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How to date better when you feel surrounded by fakes, flirts and ghosts

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Dating in Los Angeles can be messy. In “Date Cute” we’ll explore common dating problems and provide tips on how to date better.

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To say it’s difficult to date in Los Angeles is almost like saying the traffic is bad. Yes, we know!

But what if dating didn’t have to feel so debilitating? What if we could create the healthy and fun dating life that we crave so badly? One that would make us excited about the possibility of love and romance? This ongoing series will explore how to approach everything from dating apps and attachments styles to situationships and ghosting.

Let’s get back out there.

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First, ask yourself what it is that’s upsetting to you. Do you miss the amount of time you used to spend with your friend? Are you jealous? Or do you have a deeper concern?

Situationships are fine if both parties are on the same page, but what happens when one person catches feelings? Here’s what experts say you should do.

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Most people don’t like being ghosted, so why has it become so common? Here’s what Los Angeles experts say you should do instead.

Whether you have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, you can become a secure dater. Here’s how to do it, according to relationship experts.

Chemistry in dating is important, but it doesn’t always come instantaneously. Here’s why you shouldn’t give up on someone just because you didn’t feel a spark right away.

Should you call it quits with your crush because they barely text you? Relationship experts offer their thoughts.

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